A diplomatic person knows how to handle situations
Consider these two statements:
John tells wife at dining table: “Darling, this is the worst chicken curry I have ever had! I don’t think you were paying attention to cooking today. It’s awful!”
Tom tells wife at dining table: “Darling, it seems you are out of habit today. There is something wrong with this chicken curry, but I can’t tell what. Why don’t you taste it?”
If you are a woman, who would want as your husband? John or Tom?
We know Tom will be your choice unless you are a sucker for trouble. You’ll like him because Tom is a diplomatic person.
The point is we all handle situations differently according to our personality. But we have noticed that some people are just a lot better with words than most of us.
They ease out things even in difficult situations; they are more diplomatic; and they exercise more tact and skill in dealing with people.
In this article, we will see who these people are and what is there in their handwriting which makes them that way.
Handwriting of a diplomatic person
Before we proceed, write the following sentence on a sheet of paper: “Yesterday is but today’s memory, and tomorrow is today’s dream.”
Now, we have 4 little m’s in this sentence. We want to observe the size of the 2 humps in the m. There are three possibilities:
- They are of the same size.
- The first one is bigger than the second one.
- The second one is bigger than the first one.
The trait we are learning, diplomacy, has to do with the second possibility.
According to handwriting analysis, If the first hump is bigger than the second one, the writer will tend to be tactful in speaking.
Handwriting of diplomatic person
For example, if A wants to tell me he doesn’t like something in this article, he would say ‘it would be better if we use this word’ instead of just saying, ‘ This is not good.’
I think diplomacy is a very useful trait because it eases out situations and definitely helps maintain and improve relationships.
We’ve all seen the blindly-in-love hero swallow the experimental cooking by his girlfriend/wife without complaining, and it always pays!
However, I am not suggesting that everybody should resort to false praise or subject themselves to torture, but it’s up to you whether you want to be John or Tom. The latter will write m’s and n’s exactly the way you see in the sample above.
Also, by changing your m’s and n’s in this way will help you become a little diplomatic. Yes, it’s true. You can really surprise people with your diplomatic behaviour
Do you have a story to share about a diplomatic person? Let us know in the comment box.
Disclaimer: One element of handwriting may be analysed at a time, but always look at the entire handwriting sample before arriving at any conclusion.
