Coolness is not about becoming another person who is glamorous.
Who’s a cool guy?
For many, being cool means replicating the mannerism and diction of a famous person in a movie or TV show.
But the fact is coolness means different things to different people. One person’s coolness is another person’s absurdity. Tattoos, for example. Not everyone likes them, right?
Similarly, a cool celebrity in one part of the world is a weird guy in another. Lady Gaga or Snoop Dogg, for example. Just place these two in a C-town in Uttar Pradesh, and you’ll understand what I mean.
The truth is that your sartorial choices alone cannot make you a cool guy or girl. The one thing that can make a person cool is when he or she is comfortable in his/her own skin.
To be a cool guy or a girl, you need to be comfortable in your own skin.
Really cool people add fun to our lives because in their company, we can be ourselves. They make us feel comfortable and open up. Such people help us improve upon our spontaneity. While dealing with them, we don’t feel like walking on eggshells.
Handwriting of not a cool guy
Coolness is a much-desired personality trait. You cannot become cool just by trying too hard. In fact, handwriting gives enough clues that prove that the writer in definitely not a cool guy.
Let’s take a look at some of them.
#1. Putting up a facade
You’re most definitely not a cool guy if you are not comfortable in your skin. That means you’re not happy with who you are, and therefore, pretend to be someone you’re not.
You can identify such people by juxtaposing their handwriting and signature. According to signature analysis, If they look drastically different from each other, it means you are pretending to be someone you are not.
You cannot be a cool guy if you always pretend to be someone you are not.
For example, if the signature looks significantly bigger than the handwriting, it means you’re pretending to be a more confident guy than you are and promising more than you can deliver.
Even if you draw people to yourself by faking your confidence level, they will know sooner or later that it was only a pretense—a total facade.
On the other hand, a reverse script with smaller signature and bigger handwriting shows you’re being way too modest than you are.
Hardly a sign of a really cool guy, wouldn’t you say?
#2. Being too sensitive
If you’re too sensitive a person, it’s unlikely people in your personal life will find you cool. It’s tough to be around a sensitive guy because you never know what will hurt him.
Aamir Khan’s handwriting
Take the example of Aamir Khan. A celebrity, no doubt. And he is considered to be a cool guy.
But that’s only from a distance. His handwriting suggests that people in his personal life may have a tough time dealing with him as a person.
Take a look at his handwriting, especially the loopy in the upper part of the letters ‘t’ and ‘d’.
According to handwriting analysis, these loops are indicative of extreme sensitivity. Such a person gets hurt easily, and dealing with such a person is like walking on eggshells.
With a friend, partner or lover like him, you will always have to be very very cautious about the words you use.
Without risking a nice evening or an entire day, you cannot tell him that his opinion on certain things are wrong or the way he does things need improvement.
Over every negative comment, he will get defensive and would enter into an argument. Use of even one careless word would hurt him badly.
Not so cool now, right? We have done a detailed analysis of Aamir Khan’s handwriting. Take a look.
By the way, if you want to get rid of extreme sensitivity, lose these loops using graphotherapy.
#3. Lack of spine
A cool guy is much more than being just a tattooed guy.
Have you met people who will agree with you on everything just to please you? I’m sure you have. Do they put you off? Of course they do.
These people-pleasers lack the spine or courage to do what they really want to do with their lives. They frequently fail to stand up for themselves and let people walk all over them.
They change their mind depending on the consensus opinion of a crowd even when they deep down do not agree with what is being said.
As a matter of fact, he is willing to forego who really he is, in the hope of being seen as cool. When people get a scent of that wannabe-ness, they will realise in a jiffy how “uncool” the guy is.
Low t-bars in handwriting
In handwriting analysis, there are many indicators of this personality trait. But the most prominent one is the the t-bar.
A low t-bar points to a person lacking self-confidence to even stand for what he believes in because he does not want to upset others.
You may want to read a previous article we wrote on why it’s not good to be too nice to everyone all the time.
Final words
As I have said above, being is a cool guy is not about your sartorial choices or your tattoos. It is also not about how you present yourself physically, what you have accomplished in life or what you do for a job. It is all about how he feels about himself.
To me, a confident person who can laugh at himself and does not switch his opinions like a car gear to please a particular group of people or crowd is an actual cool guy.
Coolness is not about becoming another person who is glamorous. It is not something you can buy in a fancy mall or wear on your body like cologne.
In fact, it’s all about you as a person, your confidence and your belief in yourself. That’s what makes you a cool guy or a girl.
Let me know your thoughts.
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Disclaimer: One element of handwriting may be analysed at a time, but always look at the entire handwriting sample before arriving at any conclusion.
